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vito
So there's this girl that I had a crush on since freshman year. We had a class together in freshman year, she used to talk to me and asked me a lot of questions, I don't know if she liked me but I thought she was very nice. After that year we never had a class together although she occasionally randomly said hi to me in the hallways. Until now in my senior year second semester, we are in the same elective class. How do I start a conversation wither her? Please don't say answers like talk to her, I'm going to do that but what should I say? I don't mind just being friends I just want to know her. I have only 5 months till graduation so I may never see her again. Thanks.
@anonymous
I have good grades, I already got accepted into a good college studying aerospace engineering, I'm not going to lose focus on my school work.
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this is all you have to do. i have done this many times & it works. there's 3 parts to getting a girl go out with you: attraction, rapport, and seduction. ,
1. Attract- women want you to lead them & make them feel safe. you have to be confident in yourself. lack of confidence turns them off. traits like boldness, leadership, confidence, directness, etc. all attract girls, while shyness, awkwardness, insecurity, fear, & being a follower turns them off. good looks, cars, & money, don't turn women on; they are like bonus points. if you lack the above traits, girls won't like you, regardless if you're a perfect 10. you must have the good traits, & you must ditch the bad ones (this is very easy to do. ANYONE can do this). you got to make the first move, because men go after what they want, & you have to be the one that moves things forward. by you breaking out of any fear you have, you allow her to do the same, & you'll connect on a deeper level. communicate w/ confidence (through your body/words), & be unpredictable. don't worry about making things awkward, cuz it's only awkward if you make it.
2. Rapport- make her more comfortable around you & show her you care. if a girl is shy, you have to work on rapport more than the other parts (while if the girl is more outgoing, & more of a party girl, you have to work on attraction more). when you talk to a girl, don't go into "super formal mode" (or SFM for short). SFM is a mode us people usually go into when we meet someone new. SFM is bad cuz it causes us to act different & awkward. which is why when guys & girls usually first meet, the conversation is boring & is like a "PG rated conversation". once you go into SFM, it's almost impossible to achieve rapport. to prevent this, unmask your true self & act like you've known her for years. give off a vibe that says "this is me!! i'm not the guy that hides his personality to new people. if you like it, cool, but if you can't handle it, it's your problem, not mine" (this is more of an unsaid statement, say it with your body)
to open her up, start up with some open ended/opinion based questions when you talk to her. the ultimate way to open her up are with statements. avoid factual & yes/no q&a because they don't get an emotional response from women (it's better to have an angry reaction from women than an indifferent reaction). Examples:
"so what's your favorite type of music?" (bad, too factual)
"do you like rap music?" (worse, yes/no q&a)
"is it true that girls like rap music over country music?" (good, it's opinion based)
"what do you experience when you listen to rap music?" (good, it's open ended)
"you give of a vibe that you're a girl that really likes rap music!" (great, it's a statement, it doesn't have to be true, & she'll be surprised, but in a good way, & it's very easy to follow up on)
notice something about her & comment it in a good way. listen to her answers very closely, because when girls talk, they give more information to you, so then you can follow up. Example:
Guy: What do you think about the action movie?
Girl: I liked it. I usually don't like action movies, but this one was cool.
Here, she said a lot of info, the guys next sentence can
(a) ask her/comment on what she liked about it
(b) ask her/ tease her on why she usually doesn't like action movies
(c) ask her/ comment on why she thought the movie was cool
There are many ways to go with this. Note that some girls may give you short responses, so you want to open her up by making statements about her that makes her feel good.
Guy: You know what I noticed about you?
Girl: What?
Guy: Well, I notice that you're the type of person that loves to express your thoughts & opinions through emotions. (BTW-this statement is true. it applies to 99% of girls)
3. Seduce- attraction & rapport happen simultaneously most of the time, but seduction is always the final part, while some seduction skills can happen along with the previous. escalate/move things forward. when you break the touch barrier with a girl, the touch should be subtle. give a vibe like you have done this before. flirt with her. touch her shoulder/arm for a few seconds, then when she gets more comfortable, inch things forward (if you go too fast, you'll creep her out). get her number, then ask her out with confidence (in person is better). when you ask for the number, don't give her reasons to say no. this is why you have to attract her & have rapport, because she has to feel comfortable in giving you her number. how you ask is easy. it's just "you seem like a really cool girl. why don't you give me your number so that we can keep in touch." she will say yes once step 1 & 2 is done. when you ask her out, make it a statement instead of a question.
this is all you have to do. i have done this many times & it works. there's 3 parts to getting a girl go out with you: attraction, rapport, and seduction. ,
1. Attract- women want you to lead them & make them feel safe. you have to be confident in yourself. lack of confidence turns them off. traits like boldness, leadership, confidence, directness, etc. all attract girls, while shyness, awkwardness, insecurity, fear, & being a follower turns them off. good looks, cars, & money, don't turn women on; they are like bonus points. if you lack the above traits, girls won't like you, regardless if you're a perfect 10. you must have the good traits, & you must ditch the bad ones (this is very easy to do. ANYONE can do this). you got to make the first move, because men go after what they want, & you have to be the one that moves things forward. by you breaking out of any fear you have, you allow her to do the same, & you'll connect on a deeper level. communicate w/ confidence (through your body/words), & be unpredictable. don't worry about making things awkward, cuz it's only awkward if you make it.
2. Rapport- make her more comfortable around you & show her you care. if a girl is shy, you have to work on rapport more than the other parts (while if the girl is more outgoing, & more of a party girl, you have to work on attraction more). when you talk to a girl, don't go into "super formal mode" (or SFM for short). SFM is a mode us people usually go into when we meet someone new. SFM is bad cuz it causes us to act different & awkward. which is why when guys & girls usually first meet, the conversation is boring & is like a "PG rated conversation". once you go into SFM, it's almost impossible to achieve rapport. to prevent this, unmask your true self & act like you've known her for years. give off a vibe that says "this is me!! i'm not the guy that hides his personality to new people. if you like it, cool, but if you can't handle it, it's your problem, not mine" (this is more of an unsaid statement, say it with your body)
to open her up, start up with some open ended/opinion based questions when you talk to her. the ultimate way to open her up are with statements. avoid factual & yes/no q&a because they don't get an emotional response from women (it's better to have an angry reaction from women than an indifferent reaction). Examples:
"so what's your favorite type of music?" (bad, too factual)
"do you like rap music?" (worse, yes/no q&a)
"is it true that girls like rap music over country music?" (good, it's opinion based)
"what do you experience when you listen to rap music?" (good, it's open ended)
"you give of a vibe that you're a girl that really likes rap music!" (great, it's a statement, it doesn't have to be true, & she'll be surprised, but in a good way, & it's very easy to follow up on)
notice something about her & comment it in a good way. listen to her answers very closely, because when girls talk, they give more information to you, so then you can follow up. Example:
Guy: What do you think about the action movie?
Girl: I liked it. I usually don't like action movies, but this one was cool.
Here, she said a lot of info, the guys next sentence can
(a) ask her/comment on what she liked about it
(b) ask her/ tease her on why she usually doesn't like action movies
(c) ask her/ comment on why she thought the movie was cool
There are many ways to go with this. Note that some girls may give you short responses, so you want to open her up by making statements about her that makes her feel good.
Guy: You know what I noticed about you?
Girl: What?
Guy: Well, I notice that you're the type of person that loves to express your thoughts & opinions through emotions. (BTW-this statement is true. it applies to 99% of girls)
3. Seduce- attraction & rapport happen simultaneously most of the time, but seduction is always the final part, while some seduction skills can happen along with the previous. escalate/move things forward. when you break the touch barrier with a girl, the touch should be subtle. give a vibe like you have done this before. flirt with her. touch her shoulder/arm for a few seconds, then when she gets more comfortable, inch things forward (if you go too fast, you'll creep her out). get her number, then ask her out with confidence (in person is better). when you ask for the number, don't give her reasons to say no. this is why you have to attract her & have rapport, because she has to feel comfortable in giving you her number. how you ask is easy. it's just "you seem like a really cool girl. why don't you give me your number so that we can keep in touch." she will say yes once step 1 & 2 is done. when you ask her out, make it a statement instead of a question.
What are good films about rich and snobby girls?
vickybrook
You know, something like Mean Girls, Sharpay's Fabulous Adventure, The Clique, etc. It should be from 1980-2012. Thanks :) xx
Thanks for everyone who answered this question! :)
Answer
Material Girls (2006)
Movie Info
Stripped of their wealth and forced to fend for themselves when the multi-million-dollar cosmetics company inherited from their father suffers due to controversy, two sisters who have never known the simple life must finally find out how the other half lives in a high-fashion comedy about hard times starring Hilary and Haylie Duff. Ava (Haylie) and Tanza (Hilary) are teen heiresses whose charmed lives consist of little more than showing up at all the hottest celebrity parties and putting in the occasional cameo at their company's board meetings while letting the responsible adults in charge handle all of the complicated details. All of that changes, however, when an unforeseen scandal robs the privileged "celebutantes" of their car, their cash, and even their lavish home; but what's a poor little rich girl to do when everything she's ever known is suddenly made null and void? In the case of Ava and Tanza, the only answer is to use their substantial setback as a means of realizing their true potential, and put the wisdom imparted to them by their father to use in clearing the family name and proving that there's much more to life than the almighty dollar.
More similar movies here... http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/mean_girls/movies_like_mean_girls/
Material Girls (2006)
Movie Info
Stripped of their wealth and forced to fend for themselves when the multi-million-dollar cosmetics company inherited from their father suffers due to controversy, two sisters who have never known the simple life must finally find out how the other half lives in a high-fashion comedy about hard times starring Hilary and Haylie Duff. Ava (Haylie) and Tanza (Hilary) are teen heiresses whose charmed lives consist of little more than showing up at all the hottest celebrity parties and putting in the occasional cameo at their company's board meetings while letting the responsible adults in charge handle all of the complicated details. All of that changes, however, when an unforeseen scandal robs the privileged "celebutantes" of their car, their cash, and even their lavish home; but what's a poor little rich girl to do when everything she's ever known is suddenly made null and void? In the case of Ava and Tanza, the only answer is to use their substantial setback as a means of realizing their true potential, and put the wisdom imparted to them by their father to use in clearing the family name and proving that there's much more to life than the almighty dollar.
More similar movies here... http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/mean_girls/movies_like_mean_girls/
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